not your day perhaps?

Salam.

this post is not dedicated to certain people,
it is GENERAL. for all of us. hopefully it can improve ourselves to be better day by day, as days passed by, for us to be a better grown-ups. :)

when a day turned up to be a not so-good day for you.
don't ever think it that way.
don't ever say that "THIS WASN'T MY DAY"
because actually everyday is YOUR DAY.

Allah given us an opportunity in our lives, from seconds, to minutes, hours, days, and without realizing about it, suddenly it have been years since we were born.

So why do you have to feel that it is not your day?
What makes you feel that you need to say it is not your day, when actually GOD is the one who give us that day?

Yes, Allah may test us. But we can make our own plans.

If you started to say that today is going to be one of your worst day in your life,
it may be the WORST DAY in your life.
But, if you set up your mind that today, IT IS MY DAY.
Good things will happen. It is law of attraction.

and whenever something comes across you that might change your mood or make you sad or angry or any unpleasant feelings, why do you have to let that negative feelings keep bugging you all day long, while you can trash up those feelings aside, and choose to let positive feelings conquer your mind?

if you are being scolded, don't make yourself feel annoyed, or angry at that person who scolded you. instead, try to improvise yourself and ask for forgiveness to that person - just push away your "egoness" and it is as easy as that.

if you are annoyed with someone, don't be too sad. just hold on, don't consider it too much. let they say what they want to say.

if you are angry, stay calm. don't get mad. and don't even keep that emotion all day long. because it might worsen your day. Zikr in your heart, recite Bismillah 44 times in your heart. If it is not enough, take wudhu. InsyaAllah you can throw that emotion away.

Like a saying, if we cannot be patient just a little bit, can you imagine how long have Allah be patient with us? TOO LONG. it is too long compared to us.

Shame of us. :'(

Gladly, Allah is Ar-Rahman and Ar-Rahim.

i may not be a good person.
but i'll always try my best to control myself. and always try to make other people satisfy, eventhough i have to cry out loud asking for forgiveness in front of that person, or treat them with something nice, as long as they don't have any harsh feelings towards me.

anyway, be cool. don't get too stressed up.

do smile a lot :)

try to make your day better than yesterday.
try to make your day like today is the last day that you live in this world.

jangan bermasam muka,jangan berdengki, jangan berdendam, kalau nak hidup aman.

last but not least, sorry everybody if i did anything wrong. my bad. :(

i'm not perfect, so do you.
and we are not perfect humans, because we tend to do mistakes.

JazakkAllahukhair. May Allah Bless us.

wassalam~

(p/s : awak, you may never realise about this, but in so many ways, you made me be a matured person day bay day. it means a lot when you decided not to argue when i wanted to argue with you. when you tried to comfort me whenever i felt unpleasant. when you advised me whenever i made a mistake.it showed a big difference in mentality between my peer friends and you, who lived 3 years older than me.thank you dear. :) )